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5-comments

• gen-xers think of competing fantasies:wedding fanstasy and single life glamor
• wedding prices one going up by 75% within 15 years
• many get seduced into getting married
• many just let there guard down and fall in love
• many jump to quick with getting married

4-questions

• do some people only get married just for the wedding?
• why is it the avd marriage price going up so quickly ?
• why should we even let our grauds down or up ?
• what is the point in marriage?

3-definitions

• postferminist
• prolong
• ebb

2-LT

• "no one have ever passed my scale"
• "I want to live my life with the one beside me like a heat stove"

1-Sumary
in this section of the book, its ablout marriaged again and how people spend their money and time in getting married, also why people get married

9th post

5-comments

• 15% breck of the egagment each year
• 39% they know some one eles to who done so
• a"Starter marrage": lasted a 5 year or less spam , with out having kids
• gen-Xers tie the knot(get married) more than or at least twice
• second marrage usuallt are more likey to end up in a divorce

4-questions

• why only 5 yrs or less ?
• do the 85% go through the marrage happily?
• why are marrage more likey to end ?
• what is the satisfaction in cheating ?

3-defintions

• desolate-barren or laid waste; devastated:
• contends-To strive in opposition or against difficulties; struggle
• attain -to reach, achieve, or accomplish; gain; obtain:

2-LT

• "being married is like being in prison"
• "single is our freedom"

1-Summary
in this section she brings up marrage , and the type of term that people we depending on how long you last with your marrage.

8 post

5-comments

• many people went get married because they dont want a divorce.
• many end up wanting to marry late
• many can tell simply how long people will lasr
• there are 2 types of marriages
• marrages heavy and marrage light

4-questions

• when is it too late to get married ?
• how many times is too much?
• do people only marry because other do it ?
• why are there 2 types of marrages?

3-defintions

• adolescence -the process or state of growing to maturity.
• eschews-To avoid; shun
• scandinavia- Norway, Sweden, Denmark, and sometimes Finland, Iceland, and the Faeroe Islands.

2-LT

• "he is a one man stand"
• "marrage is the strongest and most attractive..."

1-summary

• in this section we learn about marrge and the types , and what we need do to when we are married .

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5-comments

• more perfer a fanstasy than reality
• "the back yard": a womens rear end
• many guys take pills to improve, their performences
• men share just as much information as women do
• 76% men say then would be no second date if they already had slept with them on the first

4-question

• what is a fantasy girl?
• does your apperence effect your performence?
• why do men feel pressured?
• what is a right age for people to have sex ?

3-difinations

• cosmopolitan-free from local, provincial, or national ideas, prejudices, or attachments; at home all over the world.
• purveyor -a person who purveys, provides, or supplies
• contrary-opposite in nature or character; diametrically or mutually opposed

2-LT
"together zippers fell away like rose pedals"
"two men glazed like drunken zombies"
1-Summary
in this section we get a bit more of the fact in how and what people do on the first date , and also what shouldnt be done if you would like a second date .

6th post

5- Comments

• "readiness factor" : a sense of your own place in life.
• most guys dont usually end up with the guy they love the most
• Gen-Xers usually figure-out-as-you-go-along
• many Gen-Xers usualy settle for hook ups
• "hook ups" : is known to almost every american over the age of 9

4- Questions

• what should you wear on the first night out?
• how much should you wear(money wise)?
• why do Gen-aers settle only for hook ups ?
• why do people think of hook ups , so young ?

3- Definitions

• cohabitation-to live together as husband and wife, usually without legal or religious sanction.
• inevitable-unable to be avoided, evaded, or escaped; certain; necessary
• ambiguity-doubtfulness or uncertainty of meaning or intention

2-LT

• "he had a nice buzz"
• "...had hair like salt and pepper"

1-Summary

• in this section we learned how and usually what do the Gen-Xers do when it comes to dating .

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5-COMMENTS

• online dating today is a popular and most common way to meet people .
• not many rules exist anymore such as ; men pay on dates
• with so many rules it's hard to even get a second date for many.
• for many girll dont like for men to not have the night ready , and planned.
• many people also like to do express dating

4-QUESTIONS

• why havent these rules stuck ?
• do people trade off in having "the pants"?
• how many general rules are there?
• what should most guys do on the first date ?

3-DEFINITIONS

• etiquette- conventional requirements as to social behavior
• inadvertent- not attentive; heedless.
• folklore- the traditional beliefs, legends, customs, etc., of a people; lore of a people.

2-LT

• "the guy'woos'the girl"
• "the effort is brave"

1-SUMMARY

• in this section she talks more about datig in genral and what women look for, and how men should play in there roles on the first date .

4 post

5- commments

• love alone isnt enough ; many say never to marry your soulmate
• a relationshiop is about growing and deleveloping together
• many expect to much while - others expectto little at the same time

4- questions
3- definitions
2- LT
1- summary